Okay, so I saw this thing online the other day about questions for married couples, and I thought, “Why not give it a shot?” My wife and I have been together for, like, a decade, so I figured it could be fun to spice things up a bit.
First off, I grabbed my phone and searched for some lists of questions. There were tons of them out there, some pretty cheesy, others kinda deep. I picked a few that seemed interesting, nothing too crazy, just stuff to get us talking.
- Why did you choose each other in the first place?
- What is your favorite memory together?
- What qualities do you admire most in your partner?
- How has your partner supported you during challenging times?
- What’s your favorite thing about married life so far?
Later that evening, after dinner, I brought it up casually. I told my wife, “Hey, I found this list of questions for couples, wanna try it out?” She was game, so we sat down on the couch, all cozy, and I started reading them out loud.
The first few were easy. We reminisced about our first date, and how nervous I was. We laughed about some of our favorite memories, like that time we got lost on a road trip and ended up at that weird roadside diner.
Then it got a bit more serious. We talked about the things we admire in each other. It was actually really nice to hear her say what she appreciates about me, and it felt good to tell her how much I admire her strength and kindness.
We even touched on some tougher times we’ve been through. We discussed how we supported each other when my dad was sick, and how she helped me through that rough patch at work a few years back.
Sharing Moments
Honestly, it was a great experience. It wasn’t just about the questions, but the whole process of sitting down and really listening to each other. We ended up talking for hours, about all sorts of things, not just what was on the list.
I’d definitely recommend this to other couples. It’s a simple thing, but it can really help you connect and remember why you fell in love in the first place. Plus, it’s just fun to hear your partner’s perspective on things.
