Okay, let’s talk about “virgin” and “not virgin”. This is something I’ve been thinking about a lot lately, and I’ve done some experimenting, so I want to share my experience.
First off, I started by reading up on what people generally think about virginity. I found some stuff online, like some study notes from October 4, 2024, talking about binary formats and something called CodePlex, whatever that is. Then I stumbled upon some blog that mentioned teaching, I guess it’s called “2B-2BHow 2Bto” or something. Didn’t really get much out of those, to be honest.
Then I started to think, what does it mean to be a virgin, really? Is it just about sex, or is there more to it? I talked to some friends, and some of them said it’s a big deal, others said it’s not important. A lot of them brought up religion, especially Christianity, and how it can make things complicated. But honestly, most people my age, in their 20s, have already been through some stuff, made mistakes, you know?
My Experiment
So, I decided to do my own little experiment. Not in the physical sense, but more like a thought experiment. I started by listing out all the things I thought were associated with being a virgin:
- Innocence
- Purity
- Lack of experience
- Maybe some awkwardness?
Then, I did the same for “not virgin”:
- Experience
- Knowing what you want
- Maybe some regrets?
- Confidence, maybe?
After making these lists, I spent some time just reflecting. I thought about my own experiences, my friends’ experiences, and what I’ve seen in movies and read in books. I tried to be really honest with myself about what I felt and what I thought.
What I Found
Honestly, after all this thinking and reflecting, I realized that it’s all a lot more complicated than I initially thought. Being a virgin or not a virgin doesn’t really define you as a person. It’s just one part of your life, one part of your story.
I used to think that losing your virginity was this huge, life-changing event. But now, I’m not so sure. Maybe it is for some people, but for others, it’s just another experience, another step in growing up. I decided to change my mind about virgin, and made up my mind to keep it. And at the same time, I won’t judge my friends who already lost it. They still live a good life.
So, yeah, that’s my little journey into the world of “virgin” and “not virgin”. It’s been interesting, and I’m still learning. But I think the most important thing I’ve realized is that it’s all about being true to yourself, making your own choices, and not letting anyone else define you. It is totally okay to be a virgin, just do it at your own pace, doesn’t matter it will be 2 years or 20 years. Just be yourself. That’s all that matters.
