Okay, so, let’s talk about this “all kinks list” thing. I decided to dive into this whole world, you know, just to see what it’s all about. I mean, people always talk about spicing things up, right? And I’m in a relationship, so I figured, why not try to understand this stuff better?
First thing I did was some googling. And boy, did I find a lot of stuff. Like, a ton. Apparently, there are so many different kinks out there. But I started with some of the, like, more common ones. The ones I kept seeing pop up were things like bondage – you know, tying someone up or being tied up. Sounds kind of wild, but okay. Then there’s something called “impact play,” which I guess is basically spanking or paddling. I started to think, “Am I really gonna do this?”
I kept digging. Found out about this whole dominance and submission thing, which they call D/s. That’s where one person takes charge and the other kind of, you know, goes along with it. I started to see how these things could be, um, interesting, I guess? It’s all about power dynamics and trust, or something like that. I mean, I’m no expert, but that’s what I gathered.
So, I started small. I talked to my partner about it, and we decided to try, just a little bit of the bondage thing. We got some ropes, watched some videos on how to tie knots safely, and, well, we gave it a go. It was awkward at first, ngl. We were both kind of giggling and unsure. But then, after a while, it was actually kind of… fun? It definitely added a little something extra to the usual routine.
We haven’t gone super deep into the whole kinks world yet, but this little experiment definitely opened my eyes. It’s not just about the physical stuff, you know? It’s about trying new things together, communicating, and figuring out what you both enjoy. I also discovered that some guys are into being controlled, while some girls enjoy taking charge.
- Bondage: Yeah, we tried tying each other up. It was funnier than I thought it would be.
- Impact play: Haven’t tried this yet, but maybe someday.
- Dominance/submission: This one’s interesting. Still figuring it out.
I realized that whether you are looking to try some new things in bed or just exploring the dating scene, trying some kinks might make things a bit more exciting.
Look, I’m not saying everyone needs to get into this stuff. But if you’re curious, I say go for it. Just do your research, talk to your partner, and, most importantly, have fun. And stay safe, obviously. That’s my little adventure into the world of kinks. It’s been… interesting, to say the least. I think I will keep trying, and maybe I will share more later.
