Okay, so a buddy of mine asked me the other day, “Dude, what’s the best sex position women actually like?” And it got me thinking, you know? I mean, I’ve been with a few ladies, but I never really stopped to document what worked best. So, I decided to embark on a little experiment. Not exactly scientific, but hey, it’s for the greater good, right?
Phase 1: The Research
First thing I did was hit the internet, obviously. I found a bunch of articles and surveys about women’s preferences. Some talked about lingerie and dirty talk, which, yeah, those are great, but I was more focused on the positions themselves. I saw a lot of mentions of “cowgirl” and something about stimulating the clitoris. Also, I read about the missionary position being effective. Interesting, but I needed some real-world data.
Phase 2: The Fieldwork
- Subject A: My girlfriend at the time, Sarah. We’d been together for about six months. I brought up the topic casually, and she was surprisingly into the idea of trying out different positions and seeing what felt best. We started with cowgirl. She seemed to enjoy it, and it was definitely a good view for me. We rated it a solid 8/10.
- Subject B: This girl I met at a bar, Jessica. We hit it off, and things got hot and heavy pretty fast. We skipped the formalities and went straight to experimenting. Missionary was on the menu, as I’d read about it. It was okay, but nothing mind-blowing. We gave it a 6/10.
- Subject C: A friend with benefits, Emily. We’ve known each other for years, so there was a level of comfort there. We tried a bunch of different things, including some I found on those “best sex positions” lists. We even tried some G-spot focused positions. Some were awkward, some were fun, but nothing really stood out as a clear winner. The average score was around 7/10.
Phase 3: The Reflection
After a few months of this, I realized a few things. First, every woman is different. What worked for Sarah didn’t necessarily work for Jessica or Emily. Second, communication is key. Talking about what we liked and didn’t like made the whole experience way better. And third, it’s not just about the position. The mood, the connection, the foreplay – it all plays a part. I felt sexy when they wear lingerie, when they practice BDSM with me, even when they engage in dirty talk with me, it made me so exciting!
So, what’s the best sex position for women? Honestly, I don’t think there’s a one-size-fits-all answer. My advice? Talk to your partner, experiment, and have fun figuring it out together. That’s what I did, and it made my sex life a whole lot more interesting.
