Getting Started
First I cleaned my space thoroughly cause hygiene’s non-negotiable. Laid out towels, lube, condoms – all within arm’s reach. Texted my partner: “Wanna test some new moves tonight?” Got an instant “Hell yes” reply.
The Prep Work
We sat down with a printed list of 20 positions. Crossed off anything that looked too acrobatic – neither of us is a gymnast. Picked these five to start:
- Lazy Dog – basically spooning but sexier
- Crossed Cowboy – for better control
- Face-off Missionary – classic but intimate
- Edge of Bed – uses furniture smartly
- Sideways Scissors – comfy for longer sessions
Putting Into Action
Started slow with Lazy Dog. Holy crap – way more connection than regular doggy! Could whisper dirty talk, adjust angles easily. Used extra lube than usual just to be safe.
Tried Crossed Cowboy next. Partner straddled me but crossed his ankles behind my back. Game-changer! His thrusts got deeper while I could control rhythm by holding his hips.
The Edge of Bed thing? Genius. Had him lie flat while I stood. Total control for me, zero strain on him. Pillow under his hips made entry smoother than expected.
Safety Check-ins
Made a rule: every position switch meant checking in. Simple questions like:
- “How’s the pressure?”
- “Need more lube?”
- “Wanna adjust or stop?”
Changed condoms every 15 minutes religiously even though it killed momentum. Safety ain’t sexy but hospital trips are worse.
What Actually Worked
Face-off Missionary won by miles. Modified it with pillows under his thighs – opened him up wider without hurting his back. Lasted longest because neither got cramps.
Sideways Scissors was surprisingly comfy for lazy Sunday sex. Lots of eye contact, easy kissing, stopped for water breaks without unlinking. Didn’t even need lube reapplication during that one.
Epic Fail Moment
Tried some reverse cowboy variation from the list – total disaster. Almost pulled his hamstring when leaning back. Abandoned it in under 10 seconds. Lesson learned: diagrams lie, bodies don’t.
Key Takeaways
Simple beats complicated every time. 4 out of 20 positions were actually practical for regular humans. Lazy Dog and modified missionary are now our go-to rotation. Best discovery? Checking in verbally made everything hotter – turned safety into foreplay.
