Alright so here’s the thing – I woke up yesterday, coffee brewing, sun barely up, and this weird thought hits me: why not actually try sending sexy good morning texts? Like, for real. Heard people talk about it, articles mention it, but does it actually do anything? Time for a little experiment.
Getting My Butt in Gear
First step: actually remembering to do it before I got sucked into emails or, you know, just pouring more coffee into my face. Set an alarm on my phone for 7:15 AM – 15 minutes after my alarm. Needed to be awake enough to string words together that weren’t just “ughhh coffee.” Brain power, low, but committed.
The Scary Part: What the Heck to Say?
Honestly, staring at that blank message box felt weirder than I expected. “Good morning” seemed boring. Jumping straight to super spicy felt… unnatural, like trying too hard? Decided to start simple but with a tiny kick.
- Message 1 (Keep it warm): “Morning gorgeous. Woke up thinking about how amazing you felt next to me last night. Hope your day is as bright as your smile.” Sent it. Felt kinda cheesy but sweet.
- Message 2 (A Bit More Direct): Couple days later. Felt braver. “Good morning. Still feeling warm thinking about [specific thing from previous night, keep it PG-13 here!]. Can’t wait to see what trouble we get into later. 😈” Sent. Hit send fast before I chickened out.
- Message 3 (All In?): This morning. Deep breath. “Woke up wanting your hands on me right now. Think about that all day until I see you. 💋” Sent. Immediately locked my phone screen. Goddamn autocorrect better not have changed ‘hands’ to ‘hams’ or something.
Watching The Traps (I Mean, Reactions)
This was the real test. Didn’t wanna hover, but obviously kept glancing at my phone like an idiot.
- After Message 1: Got back “😊 Morning! That made me smile already. You’re sweet.” Okay! Positive start. Like giving a little emotional high-five first thing.
- After Message 2: Response was faster. “🔥 Morning to you too! Now I’m definitely counting the hours. 😉” Alright! Energy kicked up. Not just sweet, but sparky.
- After Message 3: Took forever (probably like 5 minutes, felt like an hour). Finally: “Well. Good morning to you too. 🔥🔥 That thought is definitely stuck with me now. See you soon.” Grinned like an idiot. Okay, definite temperature rise.
The Weird Realization
This wasn’t just about their reaction. Sending those texts? Kinda flipped a switch for me too. Starting the day focused on us, on that connection, on that simmer of attraction… way better than immediately stressing about work crap. Felt playful. Powerful even. Like I was setting the tone for my own day as much as theirs.
Did It Actually “Work”?
Hell yes, but maybe not how I first thought. It wasn’t magic horny dust. It was simpler:
- It cuts through the boring morning routine noise.
- Shows effort. Takes 30 seconds to think “What’ll make them feel wanted?” instead of just “u up?”.
- Builds anticipation. That slow burn all day? Way more fun than instant gratification.
- Reminds both of us why we like being near each other. Like priming the pump for later.
Surprise bonus: It made me feel more connected during the day. Like we had this little secret thread running between us already, even while doing separate stuff.
Why Bother Sharing This?
Cause it felt awkward at first! Like maybe it was silly or try-hard. But pushing past that tiny discomfort? Worth it. The payoff wasn’t just later (though… yeah, that part was noticeably good 😉), it was feeling closer and more playful right from the start of the day. Simple tool, cheap (free!), easy to do. Why not try to kick off the day making your partner feel like a goddamn snack and reminding yourself what you’ve got?
