Getting Started with This Whole Thing
First I thought, okay, finding clients ain’t easy. Used to stand around shady street corners wasting hours, half the time getting cops or creeps instead of actual paying customers. Didn’t feel safe, made crap money. One Tuesday after three wasted hours in the rain, I said screw this – gotta find better ways.
Trying Out Different Spots
Started experimenting:
- Changed locations – tried upscale hotel bars, parking lots near office buildings
- Switched outfits – ditched the fishnets for smart office skirts
- Tested day vs night – turns out lunch hours got more business guys
Hotel bar worked better for two weeks till security recognized me. Got escorted out carrying my heels like some damn movie scene. Felt embarrassing.
The Online Switch-Up
Bought cheap used phone from pawn shop, created profiles on secret groups and forums. Important things I did:
- Posted blurry but classy photos – showed silhouette, not my face
- Wrote clear rules – cash upfront, no weird requests
- Added fake office job title like “executive assistant” for cover
First three dudes flaked. Fourth showed up high as kite. Fifth finally paid properly but shorted me 20 bucks. Getting closer.
How I Nailed the System
Started noticing patterns:
- Friday 3-5PM = best response time
- Certain keywords = “discreet companionship” better than old terms
- Client interviews = made them answer three screening questions first
Took two months but found regulars. Made personal connection – remembered their kids’ names, favorite drinks. Charged extra for that though, ain’t doing free therapist work.
Where It Stands Now
Got four steady clients rotating weekly. Average contact-to-meet time? Like 37 minutes tops. Schedule works around my nail appointments. Still carry pepper spray obviously, but haven’t needed it since March. The secret sauce? Treated finding tricks like damn sales job. Market research, client retention, all that crap. Still hate Tuesday nights though. Always slow.
