Man, it all started last Thursday night. I was scrolling TikTok videos when this ad popped up showing super comfy-looking men’s underwear that looked like fancy boxer briefs but way softer. Got me thinking – why not try some men’s lingerie? Never worn anything like that before, felt kinda awkward even thinking about it.
Next morning, my first instinct was Amazon. Typed “lingerie for men” – wow, instant regret. Page filled with weird cheap costumes and sketchy products. Saw this one listing claiming “silk boxers” but the photo clearly showed polyester. Reviews were brutal too, people complaining about fake materials and wrong sizes. Noped out of there real quick.
Hopped over to Google, searched “men’s lingerie store” instead. Big mistake – mostly porn sites and adult shops popped up. Like seriously, do these places even carry real clothes? Felt super uncomfortable clicking those links. Tried adding “trusted” to the search, still garbage results.
Then remembered that one fancy department store downtown. Took the bus Saturday afternoon, went straight to underwear section. Lady assistant gave me weird looks when I asked. She pointed to regular Hanes cotton packs, saying “This is what men buy.” Dude, I wanted something special, not grandpa underwear! Left feeling embarrassed.
How I Finally Found The Good Shops
Back home, posted in this men’s fashion group. Got solid advice there – turns out you need specific keyword combos. Monday after work, started fresh search with “gender-neutral luxury underwear” and “men’s intimate apparel boutique”. Finally found real stores!
After digging through dozens of sites all week, these are the five safest bets:
- TomboyX – Thought it was just for women but their men’s stuff is bomb. Got seamless briefs that fit like second skin
- MeUndies – Super soft modal fabric, designs actually look masculine. Customer service fixed size exchange in 2 days
- Calvin Klein – Their in-store has separate intimate section with discrete packaging
- Savage X Fenty – Men’s section hidden but quality surprised me. That bamboo silk? Chef’s kiss
- Nordstrom – Website filters let you pick “men’s luxury intimates” without embarrassment
Ended up ordering three pieces from MeUndies Wednesday night. Package arrived this morning in plain brown box – just says “clothing” on label. Tried on immediately… holy crap why didn’t I try this sooner? Game changer. Might do full review video next week if you guys want sizing tips!
