So, me and my girlfriend, let’s call her Kate for privacy, had been chatting about spicing things up in bed. We’re both pretty open, you know? One night, we saw some videos online about pegging and thought, hell, why not try it? Figured we’d share how our first time went for anyone else curious. It wasn’t perfect, but it worked out. Here’s the whole thing step by step.
Getting Everything Ready
First up, we had to talk it through. Like, sit down on the couch, no distractions. I was nervous as hell—what if it hurt or felt weird? But Kate kept it real. She asked, “You sure you’re cool with this?” and I said, “Yeah, let’s do it.” We agreed to go slow and stop anytime. Then, we hit the store to grab stuff.
- Picked a simple strap-on kit, one labeled “beginner” that didn’t cost much.
- Grabbed a huge bottle of lube—you can’t have too much, trust me.
- Got a harness that adjusted easy, so Kate could wear it without fussing.
After that, we cleaned up our bedroom, made it cozy. Turned on soft lights, put on some chill music. Kate practiced putting on the harness a few times. It was awkward—she kept fumbling with the straps and laughing about it. But she got the hang of it after a while.
The Actual Night
When the evening rolled around, we started with drinks to relax. Not too many, just enough to feel loose. Then, we kissed and touched a lot, building the mood naturally. Kate slipped into the harness thing again. She strapped it on over her hips—no big deal now. We used lube everywhere, like pouring it on for both of us.
I laid on my back, breathing slow. Kate stood beside the bed, all geared up. She rubbed lube on me gently, warming things up. Then, she tried sliding in slow. Man, it felt strange at first—weird pressure but not painful. We paused a couple times because I tensed up. Each time, Kate asked, “You okay? Wanna stop?” But I waved it off, saying “Keep going, just easy.”
We took it step by step: slow insertions, stopping to add more lube, checking in often. Kate got better as she went—she started holding my hips, rocking steady. After a few minutes, we found a rhythm. She kept it gentle, no rushing. We kept talking through it, simple stuff like “Feels good?” or “Slower?” That helped a ton.
Finishing Up and Aftermath
In the end, we went for about 10 minutes before stopping—it wasn’t about lasting long, just getting used to it. I didn’t come or anything, but it felt satisfying, like a new closeness. Kate unhooked the harness easily, and we cleaned off with warm towels. We cuddled and laughed about the whole adventure. We both agreed it wasn’t mind-blowing, but it was fun and intimate.
After a week, we tried it again and it went smoother. For anyone starting out, my big takeaway is: talk a lot, use loads of lube, and keep it simple. No pressure, just go at your own pace. It made things way better for us.
