Alright, so this whole Scorpio woman thing in the bedroom? Man, I totally went in blind at first and just kinda… flailed around. Figured I’d share what actually worked after a whole lot of trial and a bunch of error. Here’s my messy journey.
Starting Off Totally Clueless
Honestly, I used to just think “passion” meant loud and fast. Wrong. Big time wrong. My girl? She’d give me this look afterwards that wasn’t “wow,” it was more like “…was that it?” Hurt the ego, man. Didn’t get why. So I started paying closer attention, not just to the main event, but everything leading up.
The Awkward Observation Phase
I tried backing off a little, stopping myself from jumping right in. Noticed some things right away:
- She hates being rushed. Like, physically pulls away if I move too fast towards the good parts.
- Little touches? Way bigger than I thought. Running a finger down her spine while just chilling watching TV got more reaction than my “best moves” sometimes.
- Eye contact. Freaking intense. She’d look away when I pushed too hard, but lock onto me like a laser when things felt right.
It wasn’t about grand gestures. It was tiny moments. Messed up big time one night. Got frustrated ’cause she seemed distant, pushed harder. Total shutdown. Cold shoulder for like half a day. Lesson learned the hard way: Her mind needs to be in it before anything else happens.
Actually Trying Different Stuff (Panic Mode)
Okay, so after the shutdown incident, I freaked a bit. Needed a new approach. Decided to actually ask but not like a dumb interview. More like… in the moment. Whispered “What do you want right now?” during a slow moment instead of assuming. Her body went kinda still, then relaxed? She guided my hand. Small thing, huge difference. Focused less on me getting things done, more on reading her breaths, little shifts. Felt like I was decoding alien signals sometimes. She’d tense up when I grazed a spot? I’d linger there gently, see what happened. Usually good. Started using way more slow strokes before anything heated up.
What Finally Clicked (Mostly)
Realized it’s not about a checklist. It’s building this deep, quiet tension first. Setting fire to a whole pile of dry kindling slowly instead of sparking a firecracker. Now I:
- Invest insane time in the lead-up. Like, dumb amounts of time just touching, kissing everywhere but where she wants.
- Check in silently. Little questions, pressure changes, watching her face like my life depends on it.
- Focus on connection, not action. If she seems mentally checked out, I stop and hold her, talk nonsense, make her laugh. Reset.
- Embrace the intensity later. Once she’s fully there? Whew. Unleashing that is the reward.
Still mess up sometimes! Overthink it and get clumsy. But mostly? It’s freaking magical now. Found this rhythm where everything builds slow and burns hot. That Scorpio depth? It’s real. Takes work to reach it, but man is it worth it. Trust and feeling safe? Turns out that’s the actual key to unlocking everything. Who knew? Definitely not me at the start.
