Okay so yesterday I decided to finally put in the work on something I’ve kinda been curious about but also nervous to try properly. You know how it is – heard stuff, read stuff, but actually doing it? Whole different ballgame. Started with a chat about it, gettin’ comfortable with the whole idea. Gotta feel good about it, right? Not just jump in.

The Setup
Later, we were hangin’ out just watching some dumb show. The mood felt chill. Lights weren’t super bright. We kinda shifted around on the couch, got closer, relaxed.
Then, things started moving slow. Lots of touching all over, kissing – like, everywhere. Focused on makin’ them feel good generally first. Took my time gettin’ there, like circling the runway. Touched places near it first. Felt the skin there, just gentle.
Getting Into It
Saw how they reacted to different touches near that spot. Used fingers first, really light circles around it, kinda tracing stuff. Built up the feeling, bit by bit. Learned what worked by watching them squirm or hear them breathe different.
Eventually, after a good while of this slow build-up, felt like the door was open. Used my mouth. Started off SUPER gentle. Like, barely even touching with my lips at first, just warm breath maybe. Felt kinda weird, gotta be honest, putting my face there like that. But focused on the job.
- Started light: Soft kisses on the inside of their thigh, moving closer.
- First Contact: Real soft lick, just flat and slow across everything.
- Figured out the spot: Paid attention to where breathing hitched. Found a little bump seemed real sensitive.
- Zeroed in: Used just the tip of my tongue on that spot, gentle circles or back-and-forth, softer then firmer.
- Mixed it up: Licked side-to-side, up and down, sometimes covered the whole area, other times stayed pinpoint.
- Added fingers: Slipped a finger or two inside while working on that spot with my tongue.
The Climax and After
My jaw was seriously getting tired. Had to switch up the pattern sometimes, give my tongue a rest but keep the contact going. Could feel things building under me – legs tensing, sounds getting deeper. Really focused on that little bump with steady pressure and fast small flicks when it felt right. And boom, the whole body tensed up, grabbed my hair hard, legs clamping down for a second. Kept going steady through the waves.

Slowed way down afterward, super soft, like just letting the tongue rest there for a sec. Felt the shaking under my face.
So yeah, the main thing I learned? Takes patience. Gotta learn their reactions. Ain’t about speed or force, mostly about reading signs and sticking with what works. Felt pretty damn good getting that reaction though. Like solving a puzzle.