How I Figured This Out
First off, I got real sick of apps not showing nearby spots that actually work well and feel private. Needed a better way, right? Grabbed my phone, typed some keywords, pulled up a few of those location-finder sites. Man, most were trash. Either showed crowded parks or sketchy alleys – no thanks. Felt like I was wasting time.

Tested this plan:
- Loaded three different apps on Monday night
- Checked each map for suggested spots near my neighborhood
- Drove around verifying seven places in person
Third app actually showed decent options but didn’t filter for safety. One spot looked okay on the map – got there and found garbage bins everywhere, smelled like rotten fish. Left immediately. Next morning asked a close buddy who knows the area well. He rattled off two hidden spots: that empty lot behind the old laundromat nobody uses, plus that stretch of Riverside Drive under the highway bridges.
Checked them both Wednesday evening. Laundromat lot had zero traffic after sunset – just some bushes and a broken fence. Perfect visibility from inside the car. Then drove to the bridge spot. Quiet as hell after rush hour, decent parking behind concrete pillars. No cameras either place. Both locations matched what my buddy said.
What actually worked:
- Combined friend advice with app location tags
- Visited spots twice (day/night) before relying on them
- Avoided anywhere showing “busy” on the apps
Been using these two spots all month now. Works way better than chasing random app suggestions. Lesson learned? Sometimes technology needs good old-fashioned local knowledge. Saved so much driving around aimlessly.
