Alright folks, got somethin’ different to share today. Been messin’ around with this idea ‘sex in long hair’ – basically, how having really long hair affects the whole deal during uh… private times. Yeah, just my own little experiment.
Started With The Annoyances
First off, gotta admit my own hair goes way past my shoulders. Been there forever. So this is real personal. Woke up one mornin’, realized how much my damn hair gets EVERYWHERE during intimacy. Seriously, like:
- Constantly gettin’ stuck underneath me or my partner, pullin’ like hell.
- Accidentally sittin’ or leanin’ on it – major ouch moments.
- Endin’ up tangled in buttons, jewelry, whatever’s nearby. Like nature’s Velcro.
- Sweaty necks? Hair plastered to skin – not the hot kind either. Just itchy.
- Tryin’ to switch positions? Major logistics problem. Gotta do this whole hair relocation maneuver first.
So I Decided To Actually Pay Attention
Next time things got cozy with my partner, I stopped just gettin’ annoyed and started observin’. Didn’t tell ’em at first, just kinda took mental notes while tryin’ not to ruin the vibe, y’know?
Step 1: Acknowledgin’ the Elephant in the Room. Before even kickin’ things off proper, I just grabbed my hair, piled it all up on top of my head loosely, held it there with one hand. Partner noticed and kinda chuckled, “Problem?” I just went “Yup. This stuff gets everywhere.” Felt kinda funny, but honest.
Step 2: Experimentin’ With Positions. Tried stuff where hair wouldn’t be trapped. Like facin’ each other sittin’ up more, where I could kinda keep my hair behind me. Or lyin’ mostly on our sides. Had to be creative! The usual “face down, you on top” thing? Total disaster without serious hair management.
Step 3: Gettin’ Hair Actually Involved. The Twist! This is where it got interestin’. Instead of just tryin’ to hide the hair, figured… why not make it part of the deal? Asked my partner to run their hands through it, slowly, while we were close. Different sensation for sure – kinda intimate in a different way, tickly but nice. Gently pullin’ it back from my neck while kissin’ it? Actually kinda hot, when it wasn’t an accidental painful yank. Found out light pulls on the roots while wrapped up felt way different than I expected – good different. Needed lots of gentle communication though! “Harder?” “Nope, nope, lighter!”
Step 4: The Aftermath Struggle. Still messy! Post-coital bliss? Nah, immediate post-coital detangling. Laughin’ while tryin’ to find where hair ended and limbs began. Shower afterward felt more necessary than ever.
What Actually Sorta Worked (For Me)
- Talking About It Early: Instead of sufferin’ silently or jerkin’ away suddenly ’cause hair got trapped, just mentionin’ “Hold up, hair moment” made it smoother. Partner appreciated not accidentally hurtin’ me.
- Loose Knots/Buns: Puttin’ it up real quick in a soft scrunchie or twist saved so much hassle. Not glamorous, but functional as hell.
- Embracin’ the Sweep: Movin’ it deliberately over a shoulder or behind the back BEFORE shiftin’ position. Proactive, not reactive.
- The Sensation Thing: Honestly, deliberately usin’ it as part of touch and sensation? That was the surprise win. Makes it feel less like a burden and more like… somethin’ extra available. Takes focus though!
Bottom line: Long hair durin’ sex is mostly a gigantic pain in the ass. It gets tangled, trapped, sweaty, pulled painfully. But just ignorin’ it sucks too. Addressin’ the hassle head-on – movin’ it, tyin’ it loosely, hell, sometimes even pullin’ it back gently yourself mid-act – saves a lot of sharp breath-takin’ moments (the bad kind). And maybe, just maybe, you can turn a problem into part of the play if you both pay attention and keep it gentle. Still lookin’ like a wild animal afterward though. Zero glamour points.
