Some thoughts on, well, getting comfortable
Alright, so this whole topic of ‘positions’ for, you know, fellatio… it’s one of those things, isn’t it? You hear a lot, see a lot, and then you try to figure out what actually works in real life. My journey with this was less about a textbook and more about just… figuring stuff out.
The Early Days: A Bit Clunky
Honestly, when we first started exploring different ways, it was a bit of a fumble. You see these elaborate setups in, let’s say, ‘educational material,’ and you think, ‘Wow, that must be it!’ But then you try it, and it’s all awkward angles and someone’s neck is definitely not happy. We learned pretty quick that what looks impressive isn’t always practical, or even comfortable.
- Tried a few things that just felt… forced. Like trying to follow a weird yoga instruction.
- Realized pretty fast that comfort for everyone involved is kinda key. Shocker, I know.
- Lots of giggling and “okay, maybe not that way” moments.
Figuring Out Our Own Flow
So, we ditched the idea of finding some ‘magic’ position. Instead, it became more about, “Hey, what if I shift this way?” or “Is this okay for you?” Communication, man, it’s not just for arguments about whose turn it is to do the dishes. It’s pretty damn important here too.
We found that simple usually beats complicated. Less acrobatics, more just being aware of each other. Sometimes it was about using pillows, not for anything wild, but just for, like, knee support or getting the height right. Practical stuff.
Key thing for us: it wasn’t about a list of positions to check off. It was about finding a rhythm and what felt good and connecting for both of us in that moment.
What I Reckon Now
So, looking back at all that trial and error? I’d say the whole ‘perfect position’ hunt is a bit of a myth. It’s more like finding a comfy pair of shoes – what works for one person might be terrible for another.
My main takeaways from actually doing rather than just reading about it:
- Forget the complex stuff unless you’re both genuinely into contorting.
- Talk. Seriously. Ask. Listen. It’s not rocket science, but it makes a huge difference.
- Comfort is king. If someone’s uncomfortable, it’s just not gonna be great, is it?
- What works one day might not be the go-to another day. Mood, energy levels, all that plays a part.
So yeah, that’s my ramble on it. Less about specific ‘positions’ as a list, and more about the process of finding what makes sense for the people involved. It’s an ongoing thing, not a final exam you pass.
