Okay, so you wanna know about this whole squirting thing, right? It’s something I got super curious about a while back. Heard people talking, saw stuff online, and I was like, “Alright, what’s the deal? Can I actually do that?” So, I decided to make it a bit of a personal project, you know? See if I could figure it out for myself.
First Steps and What I Tried
So, the first thing I did was just try to get more in tune with my body. Everyone says you gotta be relaxed, and man, they are not kidding. If I was stressed or overthinking it, nothing. Zilch. So, a big part of my “practice” was just learning to chill out, really let go. Easier said than done sometimes, you know?
Then there’s the whole G-spot talk. That seemed to be the main target everyone mentioned. So, I started exploring, trying to find what felt different, what felt good. It wasn’t like a magic button, definitely not. It took a lot of, uh, patient investigation. I tried different positions, different kinds of touch. Sometimes using my fingers, sometimes trying out a toy. It was all about figuring out what even registered as pleasurable in that specific area.
I also read that being really hydrated helps. So, I started chugging water like it was my job. Seriously, I was drinking so much water. Not sure if it was the water itself or just me thinking it would help, but hey, I was willing to try anything at that point. Plus, being hydrated is just good for you anyway, right?
Getting Closer and What Changed
For a long time, nothing much happened. I’d get aroused, sure, but not that. I almost gave up a few times, thinking maybe it just wasn’t for me. But then I started to notice subtle things. Like, sometimes, if the stimulation was just right, and I was super relaxed, I’d feel this weird build-up. Different from a normal orgasm feeling.
Patience was key. Seriously, this wasn’t an overnight success story. It was a lot of trial and error. I realized I had to stop trying so hard and just focus on what felt good, and not put pressure on myself for a specific outcome. That was a big mental shift.
I also learned that it wasn’t about just pressing one spot really hard. It was more about a consistent rhythm, and sometimes a “come hither” kind of motion, if that makes sense. And it had to be sustained for a bit. If I stopped too soon, or changed things up too much, the feeling would just fade.
The “Aha!” Moment (Sort Of)
So, one time, I was really relaxed, just exploring, not expecting anything, and then BAM. There was this sudden urge, almost like I had to pee, but not quite. And then, well, it happened. It wasn’t a huge flood like you see in some videos, not at first anyway. But it was definitely something, and it was definitely not pee.
It was a weird sensation, honestly. The fluid was clear, didn’t smell like urine. And afterwards, I actually felt pretty amazing. It was like a different kind of release.
Since then, it’s been a bit hit or miss. It’s not something I can just switch on every single time. It still depends a lot on my mood, how relaxed I am, the type of stimulation. Sometimes it’s more, sometimes it’s less. But now I know it’s possible for me, and I know what kind of feelings to look for.
So yeah, that was my journey with it. It took time, a lot of listening to my body, and throwing expectations out the window. It’s definitely a personal thing, and I guess what works for one person might not work for another. But for me, it was about relaxation, the right kind of stimulation in the right spot, and a whole lot of patience.
