Alright, so I heard folks talking about this “speed bump” thing, and you know me, I get curious. Figured I’d give it a shot and see what all the chatter was about. It’s always good to, you know, explore a bit, right? Keep things from getting stale.
So, the idea, as I gathered, was pretty simple. Basically, it’s about changing the angle. The main tool here is a pillow. Sounds easy enough. We grabbed one, a pretty standard bed pillow, not too fluffy, not too flat. The first go, it was a bit… off. Like, okay, pillow’s there, but it didn’t quite feel like it was doing much. Just kinda… there.
We fiddled around a bit. Turns out, the placement of that pillow is pretty key. Not just under the hips, but like, getting that specific tilt. Took a couple of tries. One time it felt like I was gonna slide right off, another time it just felt kinda lumpy and awkward. You gotta laugh about these things, otherwise what’s the point?
Then we tried a slightly firmer, smaller pillow. That seemed to do the trick a bit better. It wasn’t about massive elevation, more like a gentle lift, just enough to shift things. Communication, as always, was super important. Lots of “how’s this?” and “maybe a bit more that way?” You can’t just assume, you know?
Once we kinda got the setup sorted, yeah, it definitely changed the dynamic. It’s a different sensation, for sure. Not like, earth-shattering, world-changing, but a noticeable difference. It brings a new angle to the, uh, engagement. I can see why some people are into it. It’s one of those things that can hit different spots, or just provide a bit of novelty.
Was it a game-changer for us? Maybe not in a “this is the only way now” kind of sense. But it was interesting. It’s like trying a new recipe – sometimes it becomes a favorite, sometimes it’s just nice to have tried it. This one, I’d say, falls into the “good to have in the rotation” category. Something to pull out when you want to mix it up a little without needing a whole acrobatic routine.
So, my take? If you’re curious, give it a go. Don’t expect miracles, but be open to a slightly different experience. And definitely experiment with the pillow – size, firmness, exact placement. That seems to be the secret sauce. It’s a simple tweak, really, but sometimes those are the ones that add a nice little bit of spice. Just another tool in the old toolbox, as they say.
