Alright folks, let’s dive into this “is 4 inches good” thing. I gotta be real, I wasn’t planning on sharing this kinda stuff, but hey, knowledge is power, right? So, here’s the deal, straight from my own… uh… experience.

It all started when I was, let’s just say, feeling a bit insecure. You know how it is – the internet throws these numbers at you, and suddenly you’re questioning everything. I started measuring. Yep, I went there. And yeah, I was hovering around the 4-inch mark. That’s when I googled it.
The internet, of course, is a mixed bag. Some sites were saying 4 inches is perfectly average, others were… not so kind. I even saw some stuff about “above average” if measured correctly. So, I decided to do some digging, not just online but also with… well, myself.
First, I focused on technique. I mean, are we talking bone-pressed? Angled ruler? I tried everything. I quickly learned that measurement consistency is KEY. Pick a method and stick with it. After a few days, I had a stable number of ~4 inches, give or take a millimeter. It was exhausting and a waste of time.
Then, I shifted gears. I started thinking, “Okay, maybe size isn’t everything. What else matters?” I started focusing on… performance. I began experimenting with different techniques, positions, and just generally trying to be a better partner. This is where it got interesting.
What I found was… my confidence went up. Significantly. And guess what? The whole “4 inches good” question just kinda faded away. I was too busy having fun and, more importantly, making sure my partner was having fun too.

So, what’s the takeaway here? Don’t get hung up on numbers. Seriously. Size is just one piece of the puzzle. Focus on being a good partner, communicating, and exploring what works for you and your significant other. Trust me, it’s way more rewarding than obsessing over a ruler.
Is 4 inches good? Honestly, who cares? What matters is if you’re bringing your A-game to the table. And that’s something you can control.
- Focus on connection.
- Experiment and explore.
- Communicate openly.
- Confidence is key.
That’s my two cents. Or, you know, my four inches. 😉