Alright, buckle up, folks! Let me tell you about my little “experiment” – things to try sex. I know, I know, sounds kinda cliché, right? But hey, gotta keep things spicy, am I right?
First things first: communication is key. I sat down with my partner, and we had a good, honest chat about what we were both looking for. No awkwardness, just straight-up talking. Turns out, we were both feeling a little…stuck in a rut. So, we decided to shake things up a bit.
The first thing we tried was role-playing. I know, sounds cheesy, but hear me out! We didn’t go all-out with costumes or anything, but we picked scenarios we both found interesting. One night, I was a sassy librarian, and he was a… well, let’s just say he was a very eager reader. It was surprisingly fun and definitely broke the ice.
Next up: location, location, location! We always did it in the bedroom. Always. So, one weekend, we decided to get a little adventurous. We booked a hotel room downtown. Just a change of scenery did wonders! We even tried a little something in the shower. Let’s just say, things got slippery…in a good way.
Then came the toys. Now, I’d always been a little hesitant about incorporating toys, but we did some research together and found a few that piqued our interest. We started slow, just experimenting and seeing what felt good. Let me tell you, a little vibration can go a long way!
We also tried different positions. We usually stuck to the classics, but we decided to get a little more creative. We looked up some tutorials online (yes, we went there), and tried a few new ones. Some were a little awkward, but others were total game-changers. The key is to not be afraid to laugh and adjust until you find something that works for both of you.
Finally, we focused on foreplay. Sometimes, we’d get so caught up in the main event that we’d forget about the build-up. So, we made a conscious effort to spend more time on foreplay – kissing, touching, teasing. It made a huge difference in the overall experience. Slowing down and really focusing on each other made everything so much more intense and pleasurable.
- Communicate clearly
- try role play
- change the location
- introduce toys if you’re comfortable
- experiment with positions
The biggest takeaway from all of this? Don’t be afraid to experiment and have fun! Sex should be enjoyable for both of you, so don’t be afraid to try new things and see what works. And remember, communication is always key. Talk to your partner, be open to new ideas, and most importantly, laugh together!
