Okay, so, “fun for sex,” right? Let’s talk about spicing things up. It all started when things got, well, a little too routine. Same old, same old, you know? I wanted to shake things up, bring back that initial spark.
The Prep Work
First, I did some thinking. What did we used to do that we both really enjoyed? What gets us both going? I made a mental list, and then… I talked to my partner. Seriously, communication is key. We chatted openly about what we were both craving, what we were missing, and what we were open to trying.
- Talking it out: No awkwardness, just honest, open conversation. We both shared our desires, no holding back.
- Brainstorming together: We tossed ideas back and forth. Some were old favorites, some were totally new.
Getting into Action
Next, I went shopping! Not for anything crazy, just a few things to set the mood. Think candles, maybe some new lingerie (for me, or for them – whatever floats your boat!), and definitely some good music.
Then, it was time to set the stage. I cleaned up the bedroom, dimmed the lights, lit those candles, and put on some music. Creating a relaxing and sensual atmosphere is half the battle, I swear.
- Setting the Mood: Low lighting, soft music, making the bedroom a sanctuary.
- Creating a vibe: Pick a playlist you’ll enjoy. Set up a comfortable and nice setting.
The Fun Part
With everything set up, it was time to, well, have fun! We started slow, really focusing on each other. We tried some of the new things we’d talked about, and revisited some old favorites. It was all about rediscovering each other and enjoying the moment.
- Taking our time: No rush, just enjoying the journey.
- Trying new things: Stepping outside our comfort zone (just a little!).
- Remembering the classics: Bringing back what we knew we loved.
Honestly the action part, you can just fill in the details yourself. What did you do that you enjoyed? What position did you enjoy?
The Afterglow
Afterward, we just cuddled and talked. It wasn’t just about the physical act; it was about the connection. We felt closer, more intimate, and definitely more satisfied. And we both agreed: we need to do this more often!
The whole experience was a reminder that keeping things exciting takes effort, but it’s so worth it. It’s not about some magic formula, it’s about communication, effort, and a willingness to try new things (or rediscover old ones!). The most important thing I did to get going was to talk to my partner about it. Just try something new, and have fun with it.
