Okay, so, let’s talk about sex positions when you’re dealing with a, uh, well-endowed partner. It can be a bit of a challenge, trust me, I know. It’s not always as easy as the movies make it look! My boyfriend, bless his heart, is packing some serious heat, and at first, it was a little intimidating. We had some awkward moments, some “oops, that doesn’t work,” and even a few “OW!” moments. But we figured it out, and now things are… pretty damn great.
Experimentation is Key
The first thing we did, and I cannot stress this enough, was to communicate. I mean, really talk. What felt good? What felt like too much? We were both honest about what was working and what wasn’t. It was a bit awkward at first, but it made a huge difference.
Positions That Worked for Us
- Modified Missionary:
This one is a classic for a reason, but we had to tweak it. Instead of lying flat on my back, I pulled my knees up towards my chest. Or, even better, I propped my legs up on his shoulders. This gave him more control over the depth, and it honestly felt amazing for both of us. Less chance of him accidentally going too deep.
- Spooning:
Spooning is fantastic because it’s intimate and comfortable. He could control the angle and depth much easier, and I could grind against him in a way that felt incredible. Plus, it’s super cuddly, which is always a bonus.
- Cowgirl (with Modifications):
Regular cowgirl was a bit much at first. It felt like I was going to get impaled! But, leaning forward, almost like I was hugging him, made a world of difference. It gave me more control and prevented him from going too deep. We also tried reverse cowgirl, where I faced away from him. That was surprisingly good, too, because I could control the angle and depth by leaning back or forward.
- Doggy Style (Carefully!):
This one can be tricky, but with some adjustments, it can be amazing. The key for us was for me to not arch my back too much. I kept my back relatively straight, and he entered slowly and carefully. He also held onto my hips to control the movement, which was a lifesaver.
Important Takeaways
- Lube, Lube, Lube: Seriously, don’t skimp on the lube. It makes everything so much smoother and more comfortable. We tried a few different kinds before we found one we both liked.
- Slow and Steady: Rushing things is a recipe for disaster (and discomfort). We learned to take our time and really enjoy the process.
- Don’t Be Afraid to Adjust: If something doesn’t feel right, stop and try something else! There’s no shame in saying, “Hold on, let’s try this differently.”
It took some trial and error, and a lot of open communication, but we eventually found our groove. And honestly, the process of figuring it out together made our connection even stronger. So, don’t be discouraged! With a little patience and a willingness to experiment, you can have some seriously mind-blowing sex, regardless of size.
