Alright, so I’ve been trying to figure out this whole “make love last longer” thing. It’s not like I’m having major issues, but, you know, who wouldn’t want to improve things in the bedroom? I decided to do some digging and give some stuff a try. Here’s how it went down.
First Steps: Talking it Out
First, I sat down with my partner. Seriously, this was huge. We talked about what we both wanted and what felt good. No pressure, just open and honest. Turns out, we were both kinda thinking the same thing – wanting to extend the fun.
Experimenting with Techniques
- The Start-Stop Thing: I’d heard about this, so I gave it a shot. Basically, when I felt like I was getting close, I’d stop, take a breather, and then start again. It was… interesting. Took some getting used to, for sure.
- Edging: Similar to start-stop, but more about getting right to the edge and then backing off. This one felt more natural, actually. I focused on the sensations and tried to control my excitement.
- Different Positions: We mixed things up a bit. Some positions are definitely more intense than others, so we experimented with ones that felt less… urgent. This was actually pretty fun, and we discovered some new favorites.
- Deep Breaths:Sounds simple I took some deep breaths, in through the nose, out through the * slowed things down a bit.
The Results (So Far)
Honestly, it’s been a work in progress. Some things worked better than others. The start-stop method was a little clunky at first, but edging felt more intuitive. The biggest win, though, was just talking about it openly with my partner. That made everything less stressful and more enjoyable.
I’m still learning, and I’m definitely going to keep trying different things. It’s not about becoming some kind of sex god, but about making the experience better for both of us. And so far, so good!
