Okay, so last week, my partner and I were feeling a little…stuck. Same old routine, you know? So I thought, “Let’s shake things up!” I started digging around online for some fresh ideas, and wow, did I find a goldmine of suggestions.
The Prep Work
First, we talked. Like, really talked. What were we curious about? What were we comfortable with? Turns out, we were both kinda intrigued by the idea of trying something new, but we also wanted to keep it fun and relaxed. No pressure.
I made a list. Yeah, I’m a list person. It had everything from simple stuff like changing positions to slightly more adventurous things. Then, we went through the list together, marking what sounded interesting and definitely crossing off anything that was a “no-go.”
Game On!
We decided to start small. We picked a new position, one we’d never tried before. It was…awkward at first. Lots of giggling and “Wait, how does this work?” moments. But honestly, the laughter made it even better.
- New position attempt #1: Total fail. We collapsed in a heap of limbs.
- New position attempt #2: Success! It felt different, exciting, and definitely added a spark.
Then, we introduced a new toy from my drawer.
We spent a good amount of time just exploring, figuring out what felt good, and communicating a lot. It wasn’t about achieving some ultimate goal; it was about the journey, the connection, and the shared experience.
The Aftermath
Honestly? It was amazing. Not just the physical part, but the feeling of closeness and playfulness. We felt like we’d rediscovered something, and it brought us closer. It wasn’t about being super adventurous; it was about being open and willing to try something new together.
We’re definitely going to keep exploring. Maybe not every week, but it’s definitely opened up a new chapter in our sex life. And the best part? We did it our way, at our own pace, and with lots of laughs along the way.
