Okay, so last night was… interesting. My guy and I decided to spice things up a bit, and I took the lead. Here’s how it all went down, from start to finish.
Setting the Mood
First things first, I wanted to get him relaxed. I dimmed the lights, put on some music he likes – nothing too crazy, just some chill tunes. I also lit a couple of candles, you know, for that ~ambiance~.
Getting Started
I started with a massage. I’m no professional, but I know my way around his back and shoulders. I used some oil I had, and just focused on the areas where he holds tension. He started to visibly unwind, which was my cue to move on.
Taking it Slow
- I kissed my way down his neck and chest. Slow, deliberate kisses. No rushing.
- Then, I started teasing him a bit. Light touches, gentle strokes, you get the idea.
- I paid attention to his reactions. If he moaned or shifted, I knew I was on the right track.
The Main Event
I’m not gonna give you a play-by-play, but I will say this: communication is key. I asked him what he liked, and I listened to his body language. If I tried something new, I watched his face to see if he was into it. Don’t be afraid to experiment, but always check in with your partner.
The Aftermath
Afterward, we just cuddled for a while. We didn’t even talk much, just enjoyed the closeness. It was… nice. Really nice. It’s important to connect on an emotional level too, you know?
Honestly, the whole experience was about making him feel good, and in turn, that made me feel good. It wasn’t about following some strict rules, but about being present and responsive. It was a blast, and we both ended up feeling great.
