Okay, so let’s talk about this orgasm denial thing I tried out. It’s been on my mind for a while, and I finally decided to give it a go. Basically, it’s all about holding back from, you know, the big finish. The idea is to see what happens when you tease yourself, get really close, but then stop right before the edge. It’s supposed to make things more intense when you finally let go, or so I heard.
I started off slow. It was just me, no partner involved, and I figured it was best to ease into it. First time, I just brought myself close, like really close, and then forced myself to stop. Honestly, it was frustrating as hell. I was right there, and to just pull back? Not easy, let me tell you.
Here’s how I went about it:
- Set the mood: Made sure I was relaxed, no distractions. Dimmed the lights, put on some music, the whole shebang.
- Start slow: I didn’t jump straight into hardcore denial. I just got myself aroused, enjoying the sensations, feeling the build-up.
- The edge: This is where it got tricky. I got myself to the point where I was just about to, you know, and then I stopped. Completely.
- Repeat: I did this a few times. Each time, I tried to hold out a little longer, get a little closer, and then stop.
It was a rollercoaster, let me tell you. One minute I’m all excited and feeling good, the next I’m stopping myself, which was kind of a letdown. But I kept at it, curious to see where it would go. Each time I stopped, I took a few deep breaths, relaxed a bit, and then started again. It was a weird mix of pleasure and, well, denial.
After a few rounds of this, I decided to let myself go. And wow, the release was definitely more intense than usual. It felt like all that built-up tension just exploded. It was pretty amazing, not gonna lie.
So, what’s the verdict? Orgasm denial is definitely something else. It’s not just about the physical act, but also about control, about pushing your limits and seeing what you’re capable of. It’s frustrating, but also kind of thrilling in a way. Would I do it again? Maybe. It’s not something I’d do all the time, but as a way to spice things up or explore different aspects of pleasure, it’s definitely interesting.
This whole experience taught me a bit about myself, about how to tune into my body and really pay attention to the sensations. It’s not just about reaching the end goal, but also about the journey to get there. And sometimes, delaying that journey can make the destination even sweeter.
