So, I’ve been doing some, uh, experiments lately. Yeah, that’s the word, experiments. It all started when I was thinking about what really turns me on, you know? Like, what really gets my engine going. I read somewhere that understanding your own beliefs about sex can help you figure out what kind of kinks you might be into. Made sense to me, so I started digging deeper.
I started by just exploring different types of kinks, you know, just seeing what’s out there. I mean, you never know what you might like until you try it, right? I found this guide online, “Exploring Kinks and Fetishes: The Expert’s Guide” or something like that. It was pretty helpful, gave me a good overview of different things people are into.
- Watching: First, I started with just watching, yeah, kind of like voyeurism. It felt a bit weird at first, watching others without them knowing, but damn, it was a rush.
- Trying new positions: Then I tried some new positions. Nothing too crazy, just some stuff I saw online. Kneeling was surprisingly hot, and that face-to-face thing, wow, that was intense. Right angle, not so much, didn’t do much for me. Cowgirl, though, that was fun.
- Light kink exploration: After that, I got a little bolder and tried some light kink stuff. Just some simple things, like, you know, tying each other up a little, nothing too intense. It was a nice change of pace, added a bit of spice.
It’s all about consent and patience, I realized. You can’t just jump into these things without talking it out first, and you gotta be patient with yourself and your partner. It’s a process, you know? And honestly, these “experiments” have been pretty fun. It’s like, it broke up the monotony of everyday life, you know? Gave me something to look forward to.
I’m still exploring, still figuring things out. But it’s been a wild ride so far, and I’m excited to see where it goes. Who knew there was so much to discover about yourself, just by trying new things in the bedroom?
