Okay, so, my partner and I decided to spice things up a bit and make a “sex bucket list.” Sounds kinda cheesy, but it’s actually been pretty fun. We started by just brainstorming, you know? Throwing out ideas, no matter how wild or silly they seemed at first.
We grabbed a notebook and a couple of pens. We sat down on the couch, maybe had a glass of wine to loosen up a bit. It started slow, you know, with things like “kiss in the rain” or “try a new position.” Then we started getting more adventurous.
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First on the list was revisiting our first kiss. We tried to recreate that moment, that feeling, you know? It was surprisingly sweet and brought back a lot of memories. We actually laughed a lot during that one, remembering how awkward and excited we both were. It’s not just about the physical stuff, it was also about connecting emotionally.
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Then, we moved on to something a bit more daring. We decided to take a weekend trip somewhere new. Nothing too crazy, just a little bed and breakfast a few hours away. The change of scenery really did something, you know? It felt like a mini-adventure. We spent a lot of time just exploring the town, holding hands, and, well, you know, reconnecting in the bedroom. It was like being on our honeymoon again, kind of.
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After that we try to hug each other more often. Not just a quick peck on the cheek, but a real, proper hug. And cuddling! We made an effort to cuddle more, even if it was just for a few minutes before falling asleep. It’s such a simple thing, but it really does make you feel closer.
We’re still working our way through the list. It’s not like we’re rushing or anything. We do it in a natural way. Sometimes we add new things to it, sometimes we skip something if we’re not feeling it. The important thing is that it’s brought us closer together. We talk more, we laugh more, and, yeah, the sex is definitely better. It’s like we rediscovered each other or something. It’s not perfect, and we don’t always agree on everything, but it’s been a really positive experience overall.
It’s really about the journey, not the destination.
It is worth to try, you will find something new about each other.
